Why I’m a Bitch

While I’m going to change everything, which includes my marital situation, I bear no ill will towards Poor Scotty.  And I’m not ready to make my move.  Financially it doesn’t work yet. I need to pick up at least two more clients before I can do anything.

So yesterday he emails me and asks that I send him his resume, "I think its time to start looking."  Poor Scotty works for my sister’s husband.  They are a cable contractor and typically make amazing money.  That is, when there is work.  While here in Virginia, Poor Scotty was a manager and got paid really well.  We’ve become accustom to that lifestyle and are currently maxed out.  So, they piss off the cable company here and quit working for them. I guess they figure they are so great that anyone would hire them.  Wrong, my brother-in-law, in my opinion has made some mistakes and I believe it has caused them to get a bad reputation. 

So, the company is not making the millions it was two years ago and they want to cut Poor Scotty’s wages by half. HALF!  If this happens, we will certainly have to *try* to sell the house and get a car that isn’t a payment of $800/month (which is fine with me, I hate to drive that big gas hog).

When Poor Scotty gets home, and if he decides to share what exactly prompted him to "start looking" I will have to remind him he is being paid a manager’s salary but he doesn’t look nor act like one.  If he’s as motivated at work as he is at home, they see a slug who makes too much money.  Hell, he can’t even manage to get a hair cut, how impressive must he be?

Anyway, I like to make a plan before I act when it comes to big life changes.  I’m afraid we will have to have "the talk" sooner than later. Ugh!

Oh…oh, I forgot to tell you that this is the brother-in-law who had a dream about me the night before a big gala that he wasn’t going to be at.  Calls me on my cell and asks if he’s on speaker.  I tell him no and this is what he says "I had a dream about you. Don’t dance on the tables tonight."  At this point I’m like "you called me to tell me not to dance on the tables?"  I’m not a dance on the tables kinda gal and I’m really confused at his weirdness, then it gets better "I don’t want the guys to see you naked before I do."  WTF??? What kind of stupid fucking moron are you?  This is totally inappropriate.  You are married to my sister, you are my husband’s boss, and I’m on the payroll too, genius.